What bores you?
Traits!
Certain traits of certain individuals bores me straight away.
Whether it is someone at my workplace or a friend or even a family member, there are certain traits I can point out about them which bores me very much.
And the funny thing is those individuals don’t know about this.
They just stay on their course, doing what they do normally and never realizing what others would might think about them.
I can hate them for what they do but that would only harm me.
Should I let those individuals know about my feelings towards them?
Or is it okay if I just don’t?
Because I’m too sensitive to let them know how much bore I feel about their traits.
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What are the things that bores you most??
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Everyone has little things they do that irritate others, and they don’t even realize it. It’s better to not say anything – they may tell you about your own irritating habits! 🙂
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Which would probably hurt me more than their traits.
Thank you for this insight 🙂
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Yes, what is it that bores you?
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1. People’s over-the-top exaggeration for even the smallest of things.
2. Individuals mocking their subordinates, without using any abusive language though, but doing so only to show your superiority.
3 .Those who just love to keep on debating over matters which should be tackled with actions, not just words.
These are just a few.
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Ok, now I can give you an answer to your question whether you should tell them or not. I think it depends if it affects you like you are oppresed, cheated, restricted in your life or work. If yes, tell them.
If not, then consider to ask yourself why that behavior triggers these emotions in you. How you react may tell you more about you than about them.
Just some thoughts to answer your question.
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Erika, thank you so much for this wonderful insight.
You’re right!
Before wondering whether they should know about my feelings or not, it is good for me to do some work on personal level.
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I can tell you from experience that holds a lot of insights and discoveries. And pretty sure, the behavior of others won’t matter anymore. Much love to you, dear Hammad!
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I agree with what Sadje said.
The best thing is to ignore.
Already we are busy with dealings in our life, and better we don’t complicate it further.
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I couldn’t agree more with you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, Philo 🙂
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You are welcome Hammad Rais.
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Better keep it to yourself.
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Yes, this is my approach.
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It may cause some heart burning but peace will prevail in your circle
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Exactly right. Thanks for the insight, Sadje 🙂
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My pleasure
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Traits is a good pick! I can relate
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There are just so many.
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What are the traits that bore you?
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It’s nice to know the variety of traits that bore you.
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Violating someone ‘s privacy
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